Getting Divorced in Kentucky:
WHAT TO EXPECT
Learn the key legal terms and procedural timeline for the Kentucky divorce process
Ending a marriage is never easy, but understanding the steps involved can make the process more manageable. If you’re considering a dissolution of your marriage in Kentucky, it’s important to understand the relevant legal terminology and the steps you will take throughout this emotional journey. Whether you have small children, adult children, or no children at all, there is a clear process for dissolving a marriage in Kentucky.
Let’s break it down:
Key Terms You Should Know
• Dissolution of Marriage: This is the legal process used to end a marriage in Kentucky. Often, “dissolution” and “divorce” are used interchangeably; they mean the same thing.
• No-Fault Divorce: Kentucky is a “no-fault” state, meaning you don’t have to prove that one of you did something “wrong” to get divorced. It is sufficient that the marriage is ending because of an “irretrievable breakdown.” In other words, there is no foreseeable possibility of getting back together.
• Petitioner: The spouse who starts the divorce process by filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage.
• Respondent: The spouse who receives the petition and files a response to it.
• Party/Parties: In family law, “parties” simply refers to the people who are directly involved in a legal case. These are usually the individuals who are affected by or have a legal interest in the matter being decided. In a divorce case, the parties are the spouses.
• Child-Related Issues: The court requires that the parties explain in writing how they will share responsibilities for the child(ren) during and after the divorce. “Rules” for child-related issues may include (though are not necessarily limited to) parenting time, exchange locations, child support, healthcare insurance, division of costs for medical expenses not covered by healthcare insurance, division of costs for school expenses and extracurricular activities, which party will claim the child on his or her tax returns on what year(s), how vacations and holidays will be divided, etc.
• Parenting Time: This is the time a parent spends with their child after a separation or divorce. It used to be called “visitation,” but the term parenting time is now more commonly used because it better reflects that both parents are still responsible for raising their children, even if they don’t live together. The goal of parenting time is to make sure the child continues to have a meaningful relationship with both parents, unless there is a reason which would make that unsafe or not in the child’s best interest.
• Custody: Custody refers to the legal decision-making power, care, and maintenance of a minor child. In other words, it includes the right to direct the child(ren)’s activities and make
decisions regarding the child(ren)’s upbringing. Kentucky law authorizes sole custody or joint custody.
– Sole Custody: One party has absolute authority regarding all of the major life decisions for the child(ren). Major decisions include education, healthcare, and religious training.
– Joint Custody: Both parties jointly participate in major decision-making concerning their child(ren), such as school choice, medical treatment, and religious events. If the parties are unable to reach an agreement, the court will decide the issue. Minor day-to-day decisions such as daily homework or caring for a minor injury will be made by the parent in possession of the child(ren) during his or her parenting time.
• Maintenance: Previously known as alimony, maintenance is the financial support one spouse might pay to the other during and/or after the divorce
• Property Division: The process of dividing marital assets and debts, including real estate, personal property, business interests, etc. Certain types of retirement accounts, like a 401(k) or a pension, must be divided pursuant to a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (“QDRO”), which is a court order that tells the retirement plan administrator (i.e., the company managing the 401(k) or pension) how to divide the retirement benefits between the two spouses. In some cases, certain assets or debts held by a spouse may not be subject to division by the divorce court.
• Preliminary Verified Disclosure Statement (“PVDS”): This is a document that each spouse must complete early in a dissolution case. It lists important financial information, such as income, expenses, assets (like bank accounts or property), and debts. The word “verified” means the party signs it under oath, promising the information is true. This helps both sides, as well as the court, understand the couple’s financial situation so fair decisions can be made about issues such as property division, child support, and/or maintenance
• Discovery: Discovery is the fact-finding part of the process once a divorce action has been filed. Each party will have the opportunity to request that the other party answer specific questions called “interrogatories” under oath, make requests for documents, and request that the other party either admit or deny specific facts under oath.
• Motions: Motions are written documents that are filed with the court when one party in a case asks the court to make a decision about something in the case. Motions include a Notice that tells the other party and the court what issue is being brought and when; the Motion explains what the movant (the person who filed the motion) is asking the judge to do (like change custody, set child support, enforce a court order, etc.). Motions are typically presented to the court at a Court’s “motion hour” where a judge may enter an Order reflecting her decision on the motion. Judges may also decide at motion hour to schedule the motion for a hearing so the parties can present evidence to the Court before the judge makes a decision.
• Mediation: Mediation is a process where a neutral third party, called a mediator, helps parties work together to resolve disputes. This can include issues like child custody, parenting time, and dividing property. The goal is to reach a fair agreement without going to court. Mediation is confidential and focused on cooperation rather than conflict. If successful, each party ideally has some level of control in the outcome of the agreement. A mediation can often occur more
quickly in time than a trial or hearing due to the Court’s crowded calendar and most certainly can save both parties a significant amount of money in legal fees.• Settlement Agreement: A written contract between two people (usually spouses or partners) that outlines how they will handle important issues after separating or divorcing. It’s a way for them to agree on things without going to court, or to settle their case before a trial happens. Once both parties sign the agreement, and a judge approves it, it becomes legally binding, meaning both parties must follow what it says—just like any other court order.
• Hearing: This is a formal meeting in court where a judge listens to both parties in a case regarding one or more specific issues before making a decision on those particular issues. Hearings can cover topics like child custody, support, parenting time, or property division. Each party may present evidence, speak, or have their lawyer speak for them. It’s not a full trial because it only focuses on some of the outstanding issues, but it’s an important step where the judge gathers information to make fair rulings.
• Trial: A trial in family law is the final step in a case when the parties cannot agree on issues like custody, support, or dividing property. At trial, both parties present evidence, call witnesses, and make arguments in front of a judge (there is no jury in family court). After hearing everything, the judge makes a final, legally binding decision. Trials are more formal and time-consuming than hearings.
• Decree: This is the court order that the judge signs to finalize the divorce and formally end the marriage. Until the decree has been signed by the judge, the parties are still married. When the decree is entered, the marital status of each former spouse is restored to “single” or “unmarried.” In Kentucky, the decree may also be used to change the name of one or both of the former spouses to the name they had before the marriage, or any other name they choose.
STEPS FOR DIVORCE IN KENTUCKY
If you have children, the divorce process is a bit more complicated due to additional matters to resolve like custody, child support, and parenting time. If you don’t have children or your children are adults, the divorce process can be a bit simpler.
Here’s what you need to know:
- 1. Meet the Residency Requirement: In Kentucky, at least one spouse must have lived in the state for at least 180 days before filing for divorce.
- 2. File the Petition: The spouse who wishes to end the marriage (the “Petitioner”) will file a “Petition for Dissolution of Marriage” in the local family court.
- 3. Serve the Petition: The petition must be officially delivered to the other spouse (the “Respondent”). This is done through formal service by a sheriff or a private process server, or through counsel.
- 4. Wait for the Response: The Respondent has 20 days to file a response to the petition. (If they don’t respond, the divorce may be granted without their involvement.)
- 5. 60-Day Waiting Periods: This is the minimum amount of time required by law before a divorce can be finalized after the petition is filed. When one spouse files for divorce, the law doesn’t allow the court to officially end the marriage right away. Instead, there is a mandatory 60-day “cooling-off” period before the divorce can be completed. This gives both spouses time to think about their decision, work out issues like property, custody, or support, and possible reconciliation. Even if both spouses agree on everything, the divorce still can’t be finalized before the 60 days are up. However, it typically takes longer, especially if there are disagreements, delays, or complicated matters to resolve.
In divorces involving children, the court cannot enter the divorce decree until 60 days have passed since the Respondent was served with a copy of the Petition. In divorces without children, the court cannot enter the divorce decree until the parties have been living apart (separated) for at least 60 days.
6. Exchange Preliminary Verified Disclosure Statements (“PVDS”): The parties exchange their PVDSs within 45 days of service of the Petition on the Respondent.
- 7. Discovery: As explained above, either party may send requests for information to the other party during this period.
- 8. Hearings: If the parties cannot agree on certain issues, the court may hold a hearing and issue a decision. If parties with children cannot agree on custody, the parenting schedule, etc., the court will hold a hearing to determine what is in the best interests of the child(ren). Factors like the child’s emotional needs, the parents’ living situations, and any history of domestic violence will all be considered.
- 9. Temporary Orders: If necessary, and usually after a hearing, the court may issue temporary orders on issues such as custody, child support, maintenance, or which party will live in the family home while the divorce is pending.
- 10. Negotiate the Terms: If both spouses agree on all issues such as property division, maintenance, parenting schedule, etc., they may prepare a Marital Settlement Agreement (“MSA”) or Property Settlement Agreement (“PSA”), at this time. This is a comprehensive document that outlines how each and every issue is resolved.
- 11. Attend Mediation: If the parties do not agree upon some or all of the issues, such as custody, visitation, division of property, etc., most courts require them to attend mediation and attempt to reach an agreement before going to court for a trial or even a hearing. This helps resolve disputes in a more collaborative way, is more cost-effective, and helps to control the court’s busy schedule.
- 12. Trial / Final Hearing: Each party puts on evidence regarding outstanding issues, which is heard and considered by the judge. The judge then makes a final, legally binding decision. This step is not necessary in every case; in an uncontested divorce (where both spouses agree on everything), the court may simply review the parties’ agreement and grant a final decree of dissolution without the need for a full-blown trial.
- 13. Decree of Dissolution: After all issues are decided, either by the judge or by agreement of the parties, the court will issue a final decree that legally dissolves the marriage. Once the judge signs the Decree of Dissolution, the divorce is official, and the marriage is legally dissolved.
TIPS FOR NAVIGATING DIVORCE IN KENtuCKY
- Seek Legal Advice: Even if you think the divorce will be amicable and resolved by agreement, consulting with an attorney helps ensure that your rights are protected, especially if there are children or complex assets involved.
- Stay Organized: Keep thorough records of finances, potential evidence, and any legal documents. It’s helpful to have everything in order when it’s time to go to court.
- Communicate Respectfully: Communication with your spouse may be difficult and awkward but you must make all efforts to be respectful. Even though it may feel justified in the moment to stand up for yourself in a text, email, or call, it will most certainly be misconstrued, especially in a high-conflict divorce, and will be used against you in court. Take a breath, be smart, and don’t give them ammunition to use against you.
- Focus on the Kids: If you have children, remember that their best interests are the primary focus of the court. Try to keep the process as calm and cooperative as possible for their sake.
- Emotional Support: Divorce is a challenging time emotionally. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for support during the process.
IN CONCLUSION
Getting a divorce in Kentucky may feel overwhelming, but understanding the terminology and procedure can make navigating the process much easier. No matter your situation, Brown Carrington is here to help guide you through the process and help ensure that your dissolution of marriage is as smooth and straightforward as possible. If you have any questions or need further guidance, please contact us to schedule a consultation with one of our skilled family law attorneys.
Written by: Lana Schroeder
Lana K. Schroeder is an associate attorney at Brown Carrington who focuses her practice on all areas of family law, including divorce, custody, child support, and domestic violence matters. With a background in immigration law, Lana brings a deep sense of empathy and understanding to her work, especially in cases involving complex family dynamics or high emotional stakes. Known for her thoughtful and client-centered approach, Lana takes the time to truly listen, explain, and guide her clients toward practical solutions that bring lasting peace of mind.
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Written by: Joe Denger
Based in Kentucky, Joe Denger is a family law attorney at Brown Carrington focusing on divorce, custody, and child support cases. His background in psychology gives him a unique perspective on the emotional challenges families face, while his experience in the courtroom ensures strong, strategic representation. Joe takes pride in providing clear communication and steady support, guiding his clients through life’s most difficult moments with empathy and confidence.
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Written by: Avery East
Originally from Charlotte, North Carolina, Avery East is a litigation paralegal at Brown Carrington with a passion for the legal field. As a paralegal, Avery has firsthand knowledge of the difficulties our clients face and regularly assists in making the process clearer. With a background in telecommunications and political science, Avery knows how to simplify the family law process into using terms and logic that help the law feel familiar and not foreign.
Edited by: Catherine Pierce
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